Everyone needs to find and walk their own path. I was fortunate to have not only been allowed to do this(thank you David and Lenny) but supported in the decisions I/we made in regards to my journey. I am certain that some things friends and family may not have agreed with and that is OK because it was my journey and I needed to find my way.
Having said that I have realized now so more than ever that everyone needs to find their own path. I may not like it or agree with it but I need to respect it.
If there is anything that I learned from my very wise Mother it was to never make people feel badly for the decisions that they make. I made some pretty dumb decisions and she never made me feel guilty for them no matter what they were and she was always there for me.
I also found faith. It is not an organized 'religion' that I found nor did I find it in a church or a building. It came from within me and I cannot explain it but I feel it. I know that one cannot control everything and sometimes you just need to sit back and allow whatever is going to be to be.
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Bobbi- We did have VERY good mom's. Mine like yours always loved and supported whatever decisions I made. No wonder they were friends years ago. They are greatly missed women. Deb
Oh Deb I have been thinking about you a lot lately. Hope all is well.
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